Happily Ever After

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Middle-Aged Mormon Man posted this thoughts on the SECRET to a HAPPY MARRIAGE.

He's absolutely spot-on.

PS - I have noticed myself the truth to the statistic he states that people seem to bond better over shared negative experiences.  Perhaps that's why the tendency to gripe when women get together.  But it bothers me, big time.

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